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Saturday, 30 September 2017

Day dreams and fantasies



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My wife does not want so much discussion about spanking as there  may have been in the past.

She is willing to cane me every now and again but there have been no maintenance spankings for long time.

That instruction has not stopped me day dreaming about spanking.









Up on to your toes.

Don't speak, just wait in position.
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Naughty girl in nice pants



Take off your trousers. Fetch the cane from the cupboard and
then say "Good evening Ma'am" to your new house mistress

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One, ouch. Two, ouch. Three ouch. Now it's your turn.

Room mates fall out 1 of 2.

Friday, 29 September 2017

Adios Mr Hef - you just left your heaven



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Goodbye Mr Playboy

You gave this particular teenage boy a lot of pleasure.

Image result for bunny spankedI can recall holding on to two things - your mag in the left  hand and something else in my right.

Your occasional Letters on spanking were a revelation.

Thursday, 28 September 2017

Poets corner - UK poetry day







Crashed through the wall
Into the dark room with the cool bench
Inviting me over.

The lights came on when the Mistress
Floated across the tiled floor
Inviting me to speak

Shivers passed down my spine
Flooding into my groin
Inviting an erection

Restraints snapped into place
Clamping wrists and ankles
Inviting me to struggle

Sentence passed and the whip curled down
Bare ass thrusting up
Inviting the stroke



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Endeavour (ND4) "Mysterious Master"


Saturday, 23 September 2017

Slowly got back together

Una joven mirando en la distancia.

It has taken a while but it looks as though we are back as a couple, my wife and I.

I have surfaced from the depression, which she helped me through, and there seems to be a sunny side to our life once more.


She tried her best with guile and charm  to bring me back from the abyss but one thing she said she would not do was to use discipline. 









She made it plain that she was tired of the submissive role I wanted and the spankings and the whipping and that she wanted straight forward loving from me, for a long while at least. 

(That rejection after so many years of playing together  initially contributed more to my depression, as I believed that BDSM and the spanking scene was a fundamental part of me.)

So, according to her rules, if I wanted to stay married I had to learn to live without the excitement and thrill and tummy stirring in a threat of the cane or paddle across my bottom.

For a trial separation, I left our home for about three months and lived on my own in a small rented property and tried to give up drink and took long walks in the country. That seemed to help get my head straight. I met a divorcee in a local pub and that's another story but I didn't stray sexually. (Close thing though)

S, my wife, and I got together occasionally and  we met at weekends on neutral territory and talked a lot. Latterly we rented a room in a small hotel in a market town and we stayed away from being in the same bed and booked a twin bedded room.

As we started to feel closer we experimented with tantric sex. My wife had downloaded some demo videos on her lap top and we tried to follow them. Interestingly we did a lot of giggling which seemed to help just as much as  the touchy-feely tantric sex stuff. For quite a few years now I hadn't been able to get an erection that lasts  and S thought that tantric sex might help. 

Mel believes we have 12 now not 7. That's 5 more areas of possible connection #wowsers. Who knows lol #spaceCadet ;)




I developed quite a skill at giving her orgasms with the palm of my hand and she excited me just by finger touching. 

After a while we found we had spent one or two  days together enjoying each others company just like the old days. I avoided any mention of spanking. 


We gotback to just meeting up and seeing where things went. We also did quite a bit of car park fondling, just  like teenagers.



One day my wife called  me  and said it was time I should come home, with a few conditions attached. 

I had to take more exercise and keep off the drink because she thought that had been affecting my brain in some way and making me impossible to live with.


Image result for tantric sexI agreed and moved back home last month. 

(My wife had told friends and family that I was away working on a long term work project).

We are trying to have some sort of sexual contact every alternate day. No matter what time it is or how tired one of us feels we are engaging in at least ten minutes of touching and caressing each others body.



S is using her heart to try to regain my mind.




Friday, 8 September 2017

Holiday snaps


He better not have bought  Tourist Class.
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dress in sparkles: hi-low affairThe hotel is lovely darling and I do hope you brought some toys.

 
So did you study that book I bought for you to read on the plane, my Darling. I don't want any misunderstandings on our little vacation.?

She taught me this and I was like what the hell. Now this is the only sign I know LOLElle UK - Pierre Bailey - 2011.  Makeup by Lisa Eldridge http://www.lisaeldridge.com/gallery/editorial/ #Makeup #Beauty #Fashion
















I think you overdid the drinks tonight. Pants off and assume the position.


Laced back skirt - LOVE...if only I could find a slightly tamer version of this for work! Have always loved this cut and love little unique details




Your sister is so enjoying our little holiday snaps. She is learning a lot about marriage from me.


cute!!!

Saturday, 25 March 2017

All washed up.

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I think it's all over. Sex that is. I haven't felt aroused for months now and not having sex has not bothered me in the slightest. I don't seem interested in spanking anymore either. In fact I just want to work and then read a book and go to sleep. My wife is not happy about the situation. She is using the vibrator quite frequently and leaving it out for me to see that she is using it. Trying to shame me into action I guess.

Honestly I don't care. Even touching her is a perfunctory motion. I give her a kiss when I say goodbye and one when I say hello and that's it.

To be honest all I keep thinking about is being alone and not having to do anything except please myself. I won't run off though. I was brought up to stick things out, through thick and thin. Doing the right thing  does not stop the fantasies though. I would love to be on a sailing boat in the Pacific or on an island in the Indian ocean.

Ah well. 

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Wednesday, 25 January 2017

A rather tasty bottom gets spanked on camera





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I know its a bit lazy on my part but I thought you might like this video if you haven't seen it.

Watch your volume before you click play.



Friday, 20 January 2017

God Bless America




Here's to change and to the representative democracy that permits it.

Friday, 6 January 2017

Naughty start to the year.

There are a couple of things that you should not do in our house if you are the disciplined male.


Unfortunately I got caught doing three of them in quick succession in the first few  days of 2017.






Now you might think that because it is the holiday season and the New Year that one might be let off with a warning, but that is not the case with S, my Mistress and Wife.













Number one, I answered back. We were both rushing to get to work and I snapped at her when she asked me where her car keys were. I had taken her car to a wash and not put the keys back in the rack.


Number two, she caught me wanking last Sunday afternoon. She had gone out for a walk in the nearby woods with a friend from the village and I was supposed to be getting a bedroom prepared for decorating next weekend. I got distracted and lay on the bed, letting my imagination go wild and she came in and found me with my pants down and my hand on my cock.


Number three, I forgot to pay the December credit card bill and she got the reminder call. I also got that look from her about the call, so I am sure she will take it out on my bottom.




So my demerit list, which had gone down to zero just before Christmas, when I got the painful session with the new cane, which I haven't written up in the blog as yet, has now gone up to 36 strokes in less than 6 days.